In our world when people talks about relationship. Right away we think about intimate relationship. In fact there are many kinds of relationship not just intimate. Like partnership, friendship and relationship between family. Anyway there are way many –ships in our life because we play different role in different situation.
Profs tell us when two people are bonding, they likely to using we, our and us. People using pronouns like mine and yours. That means you two are not in bond. If you don’t want a relationship become past. You need to be proactive, when you feel something say something. Later, we talk about Steve Duck’s filtering theory and Mark Knapp’s Relational Development Scale. Steve Duck’s filtering theory is about how people find their high quality friends. By filtering others out. Mark Knapp’s relational development scale shows the stages of our relationship with others. And the most of the friendship stays on level 1 or 2. If you want move to next level. You need to have some levels of disclosure to others.
Unlucky, we need to do our speech 2. Lucky Profs will interrupt us to fix our mistake. I’m looking forward what will happen. I’m just look down on my grade.
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