I learned a lot about the language that we spoke everyday. It is true that one word could make up of couple different meaning and for people who don't learn or study communication they don't tell the different between the serious of language that we spoke everyday. One thing that I want to make it clean is every word that come out from our mouth it has poison and it really heart people feeling espeacially when we are angry and we don't feel want to heart people but we actually out of control. Culture is the most important thing that we need to learn when we are going to do business with people that is from different country. Moreover, our personality actually is come from the language that we speak and how we use the right language to communicate.
I still remember that when I am six years old and I went to Chinese Temple in our village with my cousin brother and his name is Peter. We ate all the food that the Temple worker prepare for praying ceremony and they tell our parents that we ate the food without their permition and my mother slap my hand right away but my auntie don't bet my cousin brother and I feel so angry because why my mother punch me but my auntie doesn't. After ten years Peter has become the gangster and he took drug everyday, I finally understand that when we are childen the parents always want us to act mannerly. My mother said she love me the most but sometime she cannot act in front of my three younger sister because they will piss off when they found out that my mother only like boy instead of girl. Therefore, she only colud love me the most in her heart and this is what we call nonverbal communication.
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